Maybe you have both become just roommates - co-parents…even strangers. Managing and coping but on auto-pilot.
Or maybe the pain, betrayal, distance or break has become unimaginable and forcing feelings or communication isn’t working anymore.
Maybe you find yourself thinking…
I’ve done all the things…I don’t know what else to do.
Was it always like this? Do relationships really stay on fire for long? Am I expecting too much?
I can’t forgive this, but I can’t see myself without them.
find each other again
Couples’ Therapy opens up a portal…
Here you have space, a voice, and time to:
Feel safe and supported in the untangling of it all.
Rebuild that connection. It’s there.
Learn how to show up for each other. Like REALLY show up, even when it’s hard.
Recognize the parts, patterns, the limiting beliefs, and those reliable yet faulty strategies that no longer serve.
Craft a relationship where you feel in sync again. Redefine sex and intimacy.
Free yourselves from tired visions and social media ideas of what couples should be like…and co-create what you both want and need.
Design a peaceful transition in the uncoupling experience while being supported through discernment, separation, and/or co-parenting. (For couples ending a relationship)
This is a safe, non partisan place where every individual and couple, of all lifestyles, relationships and identities are supported, valued, and welcomed.
a way to see each other away from the burdens of life, work, parenting, schedules and trauma…
A few thoughts about betrayal and pain…
Betrayal and fractures are among the hardest things a relationship can go through. So much is at stake…this is why we move with intention. There are many truths to be felt at once. The work is layered and requires engagement, uncomfortable feelings, honesty, and space to bring out the hardest reaches of your relationship.
It’s impactful and it can’t be solved independent of each other.
But… it is there.
Together, we’ll begin to make sense of what happened and why, while also learning how to stay emotionally connected through the grittiest parts.
Decisions about how to move forward are done with understanding, honesty, and support. We do things collaboratively and learn ways of co-navigating that don’t compromise each other but rather get vulnerable (no one loves this part - I got you), focused, and with your goals at the helm.
Really good people and loving partners make hurtful choices for many reasons that feel inconceivable at the time. This is a place to dig into that.
I don’t “fix” relationships and I don’t show up with judgement or preconceived notions. I offer support, ideas, and guidance to help you find your way.
The path is powerful and intentional.
My job is to join you both in the exploring, the experiencing, the processing, and ultimately; the healing.